Some companions have four legs

Dogs. From those cute little Chihuahuas to the hefty boxers to the slender Shepherds; they’re all adorable. Nicknamed “a man’s best friend”, they truly live up to it. They know the language of love — unconditional love, love that does not consume but sacrifices everything. There are millions in this world who pet one dog or the other, some pet dozens. They say, you need to pet  a dog to know what it is to be with a dog. I agree with that. We may pet dogs for various reasons — heartbreak, the idea of feeling wanted, reciprocation of love, fantasy, competition, show-off, fun, and more. But, dogs let us pet them for only one reason and they expect only one thing from us. The answer for the former is love, while for the latter is care.

Dogs can be the most funny creatures. You just need an observant eye. At times, you can catch them running behind their own fluffy tails! While at other times, they’ll bark at their reflections (remember the story where the dog loses his bone because he barked at his reflection in the pond?). You go to dog shows and see all kinds of dogs, exquisite to raw to elegant. And there we will have some dogs who troll and photobomb other dogs just the way we would do at parties! You see those dogs who’ve been with their masters long enough to imitate them in their own ways (have you noticed how some dogs sit on their master’s couches and don’t budge a bit?). Ya ya, I have some photos (which I scrapped from random sites) to prove the points in this entire article (including those mentioned in this paragraph!) so just scroll through!
Some dogs are trained to bring newspapers, sit, run, bite, shit at right places, etc. While some dogs are trained to be the eyes of other people! Shepherds are trained to be the eyes of the visually challenged. Those dogs efficiently guide their blind masters throughout the city, while some have reported to have saved them from accidents and apartment-fires!  Some dogs are trained to be life-savers. Take St. Bernard for example. Those fluffy large dogs sniff out victims of avalanche from the debris and dig them out to give them a new lease of life. Man does things for a reason. What reason does the dog have to save strangers, the strangers who’ll not even give St. Bernard a cookie in return? Training is one reason. But the answer is partially right. Training is useless without perseverance and the will to act.
Talking of training, some dogs are trained to utilize their olfactory senses to their optimum level. They’re trained to be sniffers. Remember those movies where the leashed dog sniffs a piece of cloth and roams the entire town to find the heroine, only to let the hero take all the credits of finding  her? Remember the dog from Sir Arthur Conan Doyle’s “The sign of four”? Remember the movie scenes where they show dogs sniff out bombs, and RDX? Yes. All these have distinct smells, and they’re relentlessly trained to identify a chemical based on its scent and report it by barking incessantly. These dogs are placed in bomb squads and inevitably become family with the bomb-squads! So much is the attachment that the bomb squad arranges for a military cremation with full honors for their departed companion.
Tears run from my bulgy eyes as I type this. No, I don’t have a dog. But, I’ve petted stray ones outside the street. I’ve caught myself tapping their heads slowly and then suddenly miss a beat — only to see their expectant eyes shut waiting for the beat which never came. But, why in the world am I typing all of this? What’s the use? There will be anyways instances of atrocities committed on those mute creatures by both individuals and the agencies (govt. and pvt.), for reason as silly as loitering around without a leash. I’ve seen dogs run over by bikes, incarcerated in small  cages, rendered sterile unhygienically, earflaps sliced, and more. Nevertheless, they are our heroes 
(mine, at least!). They are our companions. Companions on four legs.

Defending the Fathers

A few months back I penned down thoughts on my mom and mailed it thro. Was highly appreciated. Everybody at my home was happy, got calls from my relatives. I showed it to Dad. He told, “already read it the day it came. Read it 4 times. It was good”. “Jee dad, thanks. Are you not curious why I didn’t write about you?”, I asked. “Of course not! You love your mom the way I love my mom, words or without words”, pat came the reply. This set me thinking.
It’s been 2 months now and I still can’t give enough words to what I’ve been thinking.  There’s this shloka in sanskrit: “Mata, Pita, guru, Deivam” which sets the order of precedence. Dads come 2nd. After much thought, I can safely say that Dads are as equally important as moms. I remember once I went with my dad to a temple. The ‘hundi’ of the temple was enormously huge, and it had an opening at the top. I wanted to see what was inside it. Dad brushed me up in an instant and placed me on his shoulders. I clutched the hundi cloth with my small hands and peeped in. I saw those glittering coins and beamed at my father. My father reciprocated.
‘who beat you the most?’, I asked myself. ‘Dad!’, came the reply from within. ‘Why?’, I asked myself. ‘Because he wanted you to improvise on your mistakes, be better, and be disciplined’, the reply echoed from within. Somehow, I didn’t regret the times I was beaten. Maybe I saw that he was sad from within when he beat me. Maybe I knew that I was at the wrong side. Once Dad was very angry at me, even I vented it all out and we didn’t talk for days. Mom came to me the other day, and told that Dad regretted having scolded you so bad. “No. . He shouldn’t be. . I was at fault”, I murmured.
Mom and Dad are like yin and yang, like the good cop and bad cop in everyone’s life. One appreciates you, and the other pushes you forward. I asked my dad once nonchalantly, “You simply say good. Even when I got high marks in board exams, all I got from you was good”. “There was once a son who used to make intricate jewellery. He got praise from all places but one. His dad, a goldsmith himself, would always point out some flaw always! One day the son asked the same question you asked me. ‘If I were to appreciate you, I’m afraid you’d grow complacent. I want you to test your limits, break your records’, his dad replied”, told my dad.
The problem is simple. While mom’s efforts are seen by their children, dad’s efforts are behind the curtains. And dads don’t speak out, not sure if it’s in their genes. The other day, my friend celebrated her birthday and dad came home late. He gave her the gift she yearned for, but she furiously retorted “I hate you dad! Do you know all my friends waited for you? I don’t need any gifts from you. Don’t compensate!”. Mom saw this and was about to reprimand her, dad stopped her. “Beti, I’m sorry. Got stuck in work and traffic. Please forgive me”, he stood in front of his daughter with his fingers stretching his ears. She ran to her room and slept off. “Honey, why didn’t you tell her that you searched all the shops in this city to get her this one doll she wanted!”, she asked her husband. Her husband laughed it off. Her daughter had heard this, and she ran to her father and apologized.
Such are fathers, one letter short of feathers. Because they play a pivotal role in your life, career, and relationships. They are the ones who give you wings, not some beverage company. I believe in my mom, and am confident of my dad. With these 2 persons around, I can face any problem in life. At times of play, he’s one with me; and at times of studies, he ensures that I study harder. A perfect mix of salt and sugar, my dad. I’m not sure whether we need a day to be allotted as “Mother’s Day”, but we definitely need a “Father’s Day”.